Why do people claim my standards are to high?

I wouldnt call that having high standards. You laid out your morals and values very specifically with no equivocation, no ifs, ands, or buts. Nothing wrong with that. Anybody who says your standards are too high are just intimidated by your focus, strength, and what you seek. It makes them nervous and makes it harder for them to pull a fast-one on you. Dont help out pregnant women. You didnt ask them to have unprotected and get pregnant. That was HER choice.